I Took a Break (and I Needed To)

I stepped away for a while. Not with a plan, or even the right words, just a quiet knowing that I couldn’t keep showing up in the same way.

The truth is, I was tired. Not the kind of tired that sleep can fix, but the deep kind that settles into your body and mind. The kind that makes even the things you love start to feel heavy.

Recently, I’ve been doing voluntary work with children. It’s something I’ve genuinely loved, but it’s also taken more from me than I expected. The emotional energy, the responsibility, the heart it requires, all on top of the quiet pressure to keep The Wright Space moving forward. Somewhere in all of that, I stopped checking in with myself.

At first, I thought I could just slow down a little. But what I really needed was to stop. To let everything drop for a while. To admit that I was burnt out, even from good things.

Burnout doesn’t always look dramatic. Sometimes it’s quiet. It looks like going through the motions, losing interest in what usually lights you up, finding it harder to connect. It’s not weakness, it’s information. It’s your body saying, please stop trying to be fine.

The break wasn’t neat or peaceful. It wasn’t all sea swims and journalling. It was messy, restless, and at times filled with guilt. I had to face the part of me that still believes stillness means failure. But underneath that noise, I found something I’d been missing, a gentler kind of clarity.

I started asking smaller questions:
What actually restores me?
What can I hold right now without burning out again?
What would it mean to work with my energy instead of against it?

I don’t have perfect answers. But I know I don’t want to keep running on empty just to keep things looking full.

So I’m coming back slowly, differently, with more honesty about what I can and can’t hold. I’m curious now about rest, not as a reward for effort, but as part of what keeps us human.

Over the next few weeks, I’ll be sharing a small series about burnout and taking breaks, what it really looks like, how to recognise it, and how to return gently when you’re ready. I’ve also been creating something new: a reflective workbook called The Art of the Break, a guide for anyone who’s tired of being strong all the time.

If you’ve been feeling stretched thin, I hope these next few posts help you feel a little less alone in it. Sometimes the most healing thing we can do is stop pretending we’re fine.

The Wright Space has always been a space for the real stuff, the human stuff. And I’m finding my way back there, one slow step at a time.

Georgia

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